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Respect for Others An editorial by Don Skags Just a short 53 years ago, as we moved into the last half of the 20th century, respect for others was taught in our homes, schools, churches, and society at large. Some-where since that time, respect for others has been lost.    We now have a thing called 'road rage.' People who you know and would never suspect of 'road rage' are losing their self control behind the wheel. Lives are lost. People are injured. And people are behav-ing in such a disrespectful way toward others that it is hard to understand    But that's not all. When I was growing up, I would be risking life and limb if I were to sass my parents or speak disrespectful to another adult. But today I hear very young children telling their parents what they will and will not do and backing it up with action. The parents seem helpless to stop them.    The children of today have very little discipline. They have not been taught to be quiet when their elders are talking and how to be quiet in church.    It is understandable how a very small child would maybe in some circumstances be noisy, but I do not understand how parents can let their middle school and older children, who should know better, continue to whisper during a worship service. In one church I was sitting two rows from a group that I could hear whispering.    If anything is said to young people who are misbehaving in church or other places, the adult who calls them down is criticized by the parent. When I was growing up, if I was called down by another adult, and my parents found out, I was in trouble, not the adult who corrected me.    I was never allowed to call an adult by his given name. And I was to say 'yes sir, yes mam,' or 'no sir, no man' in response.    When walking on the sidewalk with a girl or woman, I was taught that the manly thing to do was to walk on the street side providing a measure of protection from traffic. Also to open doors for women so that they could enter first. If an adult asked me to stop doing something that was annoying, I was to stop immediately. Agape Feast! By Marion Roe After we had the Agape Feast Communion Service on Saturday night Jan 3, Marion expressed her appreciation and joy from participating in the feast. Here are her thoughts.            Editor    It was a beautiful climax to a Sabbath day. We met in the fellowship hall of our church to celebrate Our Lord's last supper as we do at the end of each quarter.    When I walked in the door what a lovely surprise to see the tables arranged in the shape of the cross and the gorgeous royal purple covering on the whole arrangement.    To add to the beauty were white candles in graduated sizes, from tall tapered to shorter sizes. The setting was just breath-taking.   When we were seated, with beautiful goblets half-filled with grape juice at every place, our paster read the scripture for the service by candlelight.   Then we proceeded to go into separate rooms for the humility service.    When we came out, the tables were set with treats of nuts and raisins in small serving dishes. Also, large plates with cut up apples, oranges, bananas, and grapes were on each table. This was called an Agape or Love feast. It was the perfect ending to a wonderful Sabbath day.    To me it was the nicest event I have ever attended in our little church. My thanks goes to Caroly, Gary, Linda and William and anyone else who may have elped make this such a beautiful evening. Wish everyone could have been there.